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Bedtime Kisses and Safe Dreams

My daughter recently turned 15.

I know, I know. It’s so hard to believe. You can say it. “O.M.G. Ify! You don’t begin to look like you could be the mother of a 15-year-old. You’re more like sisters.”

Thank you.

As I said good night to my daughter on her 15th birthday, I was flooded with emotions. How many times have I kissed her goodnight and wished her sweet dreams? Has it really been 15 years? How has it all happened so fast? She will leave home soon. Have I taught her everything she needs to know? Does she know she can come to me if she needs help or is in trouble? Does she know her worth? What can I do to guarantee her safety? I want guarantees. She’s bright, beautiful, talented, compassionate, kind, and has so much to offer the world.

February is not only my daughter’s birth month. It is also Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month. 1 in 3 adolescents – boys and girls – experience some form of abuse in a dating relationship. As Executive Director of A Woman’s Place, I know all too well that the statistics are real. I know what those odds mean for my daughter and her sister and her friends. As a parent, I long to give my daughter and other teens a bright future in which they can dream extravagantly sweet dreams instead of desperately hoping for safe ones. I know that I cannot live in fear of the odds, but instead must face them head on and courageously work to create a culture of safety and respect and empowerment in which my daughter and other teens can truly flourish.

Maybe you have a teen. Certainly, you know a teen. This month… talk to them. Talk to them about healthy relationships. Talk to them about what’s happening in their everyday lives. Talk to them about their hopes for the future. Talk to them about who they are. Talk to them about anything. Let’s work with them to create a flourishing world.


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Courage: A Woman’s Place acts bravely and boldly, not withstanding fear.

*excerpt from the Values Statement of A Woman’s Place

Ifeoma U. Aduba

Executive Director

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